She hardly ever wears pantyhose and once on a blue moon she would wear but lately seems like she only wears to get something or get me to do something for her, how could I address this matter w/o seemingly like I have only one thing in mind, or seem insensItive to her.

They are not durable and you get holes in them too fast–it’s not fun spending $8 on a pair and have them rip/run first thing when you get into the car. They ride down on your waist, making them feel like they’re falling off. If you get them sized to your height they bag around the ankles. If you have a tan and shave your legs you don’t need pantyhose. They’re not used much anymore.